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2 interesting facts about Ami

I wrote a post a long while ago about how "Mr. Brown Can Moo, Can You?" (the little board book version) was the favorite of both Hope and Maddie.  Turns out, it is Ami's favorite too.  We have a gazillion books (we can never have enough) and you can hide that one anywhere and she'll pull it out.  It is the one she brings to me over and over again.  I find it interesting that all three of my kids were really attached to this particular book at different times.  I've had it memorized for years as a result.

Secondly, Ami is apparently very, VERY sensitive to mosquito bites.  She got a few over a week ago and they swelled up to massive proportions.  I'm very sensitive too, so I didn't worry about it too much at the time, but she looked terrible with these big red welts.  Since then, we've noticed a pattern.  She'll get a bite one day (we're seriously trying to protect her, but those nasty buggers keep finding a way!) and you'll hardly notice it.  By the next day it will swell up huge and turn red, then eventually she'll break out with a few hives or bumps just around the bite area.  Poor kid. She doesn't seem to scratch at them too much, but they just look terrible and irritating.  I guess we'll have to be extra vigilant with her and maybe invest in some hydrocortizone cream or benadryl just in case. 

what we're reading

We love books! And reading with the girls right now is so great!!!!  Because of the range in ages, we haven't completely graduated from beloved picture books yet, but we most definitely now enjoy a wide range of chapter books too - the best of both worlds. 

At bedtime we've recently enjoyed The BFG by Roald Dahl, How to Eat Fried Worms, and an American GIrls Kirsten Mystery: The Runaway Friend.  We also read Matilda by Roald Dahl and then had spent a rainy evening together as a family on the fold-out sofa bed watching the movie - which the girls thought was totally great. Hope is about to finish James and the Giant Peach (also Roald Dahl) and I'm aware there is a movie for that one too, we might have to check it out.  (If you are wondering about why so many Roald Dahl books - I fell in love with him when I first picked up Charlie and the Chocolate Factory as a child and then proceeded to reread it about fifty times (random insert here: the sequel Charlie and the Great Glass Elevator is completely wonderful too, perhaps even better than the Factory) and so I just happen to already have had a fair collection of his books on our shelves).

Other favorites that Hope is known to pick up come from The Magic Treehouse series, Beverly Cleary's Ramona books, and the American Girl books.  Oh I can't wait to introduce her to some of my childhood favorites - I may have to snag a couple away from her and reread them myself for pure nostalgic and juvenile pleasure!

 While Maddie enjoys listening to chapter books at bedtime, she is still enraptured by picture books (me too.)  And we discover new treasures all the time.  My fave right now is Railroad John and the Red Rock Run.  From the fabulous and entertaining sepia toned illustrations by Michael Austin to the story by Tony Crunk - complete with a ton of adventure, characters like Lonesome Bob, Granny Apple Fritter, Wildcat Annie, Railroad John and Bad Bill - tons of whooping and hollerin' , and fabulous descriptions like "looked grim as a mule eating briers" and "the rain was so thick you could float toads on it" - we were totally enraptured from beginning to end.  The book was a ton of fun, the writing was great, and all I could think about was all the little boys I know who would really adore this book.  Definitely recommendable.

mama exposed - bathroom reading

 My sister recently sent me a book titled "The Guernsey Literary and Potato Peel Pie Society."  I am enjoying it very much, it is certainly recommendable.  But here is the funny thing - and let me say that my insightful and experienced sister sent this book to me with understanding and intention that this was precisely what would happen - I keep it in my downstairs bathroom, which is currently my favorite reading place.  The book is composed as a collection of letters.  Whenever I manage to break away from everything else for a quick pee, I lock the door and read one letter.  Occasionally I do this to the complete neglect of a screaming child, I admit.  I'm really only in there a very short time, but it is like a mini-retreat - a tiny vacation.  It is just a moment away from the hustle and bustle of being mom for a quick journey across the Atlantic into the thoughtful lives of other adults at another time in history.  Ahhh.  You don't know what a grand effect this distraction has on my sanity, this brief walk of my imagination into another world.  

I know for a fact that I am not the only mother who has taken refuge in the bathroom from time to time. Where else is there the same privacy (if you are lucky enough to get it even there with small children around)? And these days my time to sit with a book is limited and I just absolutely can't stand to not finish a chapter (I'm quite neurotic about it actually).  So the layout of this book is perfect for me right now.  The only problem is, I'm going to finish it before too long.  Anyone have any other great recommendations for me of a book like this or with very short chapters?  It is quickly becoming a must have!

Jillian Michaels' Master Your Metabolism

I was given a little bit of time to myself the other evening and headed over to Barnes and Noble where I somehow ended up reading Jillian Michaels' Master Your Metabolism - yes, I sat with my decaf pumpkin spice latte and read the whole thing.

It was surprisingly one of the best health/nutrition books I've read in a while.  She comes across as very honest, likable, and relatable in ways I hadn't anticipated and so her story was interesting and drew me in.  But what hooked me was the informational content.  Basically you read about her own struggles and then what she found works for her - which she then goes on to recommend.  And it's this in a nutshell: eat healthy, clean, whole foods; be active; get plenty of sleep; and rid yourself of toxins in your food/environment. It's all stuff that mirrors the latest research and that any decent doctor would agree with.

And particularly helpful, I found it all to be very clear, well-presented, concise, and as complete as possible within those boundaries.  

I would pass this book on to anyone who wanted some straightforward information on having the healthiest body possible or some nutritional guidelines to follow. I'd pass this book on to just about anyone for various reasons - It would be worthy of your home library.

Ask Restonmom - 8/12/09

Dear Restonmom,

   "I read your blog often. Thanks so much for sharing your story and all of your great tips! I have a 20 month old son and I'm staying home with him. I was wondering if you could recommend a good book about disciplining your child. I have really enjoyed your appoach to discipline (teamwork, positive, etc.). I would really appreciate any suggestions!

Thanks so much,  Michele"

Dear Michele,

     I'm so glad that you are enjoying this blog - it is my favorite thing to hear that someone has found some encouragement or help or even entertainment here.  

I honestly haven't read many books on discipline.  I do have two in mind that I have read and are favorites of mine and would certainly recommend.  I don't know where you are coming from, but I love Jesus and so you'll find that these books have a strong foundation in Christianity.  That being said, I would think that regardless of what you believe, there are some good, solid ideas in these books which might be helpful or at least would get you thinking about how you wanted to approach discipline in your own household.

My absolute favorite, which I have read multiple times, is called Parenting by the Book" by John Rosemond.  And I also enjoyed The Strong Willed Child by Dr. James Dobson. 

While I don't agree with every word in each book, I do have to admit that my own discipline approach is based strongly on my faith and that is largely what guides why and what I do. 

READERS, DO YOU HAVE ANY GOOD DISCIPLINE BOOKS IN MIND TO RECOMMEND?

The Duggars: 20 and Counting! Part 2

So, I figured any mother could learn something from another mother who manages a household with 18 children and I decided to read this book. I really enjoyed it - it is humbly written, light and easy to read.

And it turns out, in my opinion - they are a pretty normal family. 

It's just plain unfortunate that Jim Bob's parents gave him a backwoods name that lends itself to the stereotyping of a huge, homeschooling family :)  But, it seems that most of their oddities came about pretty naturally.  Wearing the same colored shirts, for example - not born of a clannish philosophy, but rather of the necessity of simplifying normal laundry practices for such a large family including sorting colors. Likewise, they didn't begin their marriage with the intent of having a zillion kids, but their decision came after a particular experience which led them to deeply consider their plans and values in this area. Jim Bob and Michelle have faced their fair share of difficulties and challenges and they share candidly in this book. While some of their practices don't appeal to me, I do think I took some positive things away from reading this book.  And anyway, their humility, shrewd business dealings, and strong character were really refreshing. 

The Duggars: 20 and Counting!

I just finished reading this book.  Chances are you have at least heard of the Duggar family as they have generated a lot of interest and their own show on the Discovery channel.  I've heard mixed comments in response to this family, ranging from how weird and crazy they are to some really positive statements.  

I have to admit, there were some things about them that seemed a little strange to me as I watched their show - but two things really stood out.  I've been amazed by the sense of calm and peace that extends throughout the family and especially on part of the mother Michelle and amazed by the management of such a large family. 

I'm especially impressed by their commitment to actually living out their values - for example, living debt free.  I think most people would agree that paying with cash in hand for everything and living debt free is a really good thing, yet having agreed so - how many people actually make the sacrifices necessary to bring their lives fully into sync with that? 

Giving away two more books

In honor of moms everywhere, I'm giving away two more Chicken Soup for the Soul titles:

"Like Mother, Like Daughter" - a collection of stories written by moms and daughters on maternal wisdom, raising teenage girls, becoming friends with Mom, grandmothers, granddaughters, and more.

"Moms & Sons" - glimpses into the touching - and often funny - interactions between mothers and their boys, as grateful sons, single moms, and loving grandmothers all chime in to add their voices to this new collection.

All you have to do for a chance to win both books is leave a comment here.  The randomly drawn winner will be announced on Tuesday of next week. If you'd like extra chances to win, all you have to do is get another mom to enter by leaving a comment here with your name as the one who referred them. Unfortunately, I didn't receive the books in time to get them to you by Mother's Day, but if you'd love to get your hands on one for a gift or otherwise, Target is offering these titles at a discounted price until Mother's Day.

book - Where Things Come From

The girls and I have really been enjoying this Time-Life book we picked up at the library - Where Things Come From.  If you've got a curious kid, this book is perfect.  Concise and interesting explanations paired with colorful illustrations will keep the attention of young children. Here are just a few of the questions covered:

• How are crayons made?
• Why do we recycle paper? 
• Where do pictures on TV come from? 
• Where does the information on the internet come from? 
• Does all salt come from the sea? 
• Why is a soft drink bubbly? 
• Does chocolate grow on trees? 
• What are clouds? 
• How do light bulbs work? 
• How do musical instruments make sound? 
• How does water get to my house? 
• What's in toothpaste? 

Three Cups of Tea

I finished reading a great book that was put into my hands by my friend, Ally.  Three Cups of Tea is the astonishing real-life story of a man named Greg Mortenson and his mission to promote peace through building schools in Pakistan and Afghanistan.

Unfortunately, when the book was recommended to me previously, it didn't strike me.  I'm grateful that Ally physically handed the book over because I really enjoyed reading it for so many reasons.  I was taken on an adventure that entertained, moved, inspired, and educated me.  I absolutely recommend it highly to everyone. 

From the back cover:

" In 1993 a mountaineer named Greg Mortenson drifted into an impoverished Pakistand village in the Karakoram mountains after a failed attempt to climb K2.  Moved by the inhabitants' kindness, he promised to return and build a school.  Three Cups of Tea is the story of that promise and its extraordinary outcome.  Over the next decade Mortenson build not just one but fifty-five schools - especially for girls - in the forbidding terrain that gave birth to the Taliban.  His story is at once a riveting adventure and a testament to the power of the humanitarian spirit."

Learn more about Central Asia Institute, co-founded by Greg Mortenson here - www.ikat.org.

New book give-away

I love to read, I adore books - not just reading them, but the feel of one in my hands, the turn of the pages, even the smell of the print.  So, I am always really happy when I can give one away.  This time, it's 101 stories celebrating the power of choice for stay-at-home and work-from-home moms.  A new addition to the line of "Chicken Soup for the Soul" books, this one is called "Power Moms."   Just released on March 24, it's full of great stories including many written by names you'll be familiar with - Heather Armstrong (Dooce), Liz Lange, Lynne Spears, Jodi Picoult, Jane Green, Melora Hardin and many more "power moms".

"What I love about the essays here is that they surprise, challenge, and defy expectations.  Like mothers do everyday." - Lisa Belkin, The New York Times.

I've enjoyed reading these inspirational, poignant and often humorous stories, and I know you (or someone you know) will too.

Just leave me a comment below to enter the drawing to receive this book free, and the winner will be announced on Monday, April 13.

Book review: Parenting is Your Highest Calling and 8 Other Myths....

I just finished reading a book for review by Leslie Leyland Fields entitled "Parenting is Your Highest Calling and 8 Other Myths That Trap Us in Worry and Guilt."

I'm always wary of accepting books for review, nervous that I'll really dislike them and not be able to offer much that is positive.  However, I'm glad I read this one.  I would actually recommend it - particularly to Christian parents as it is strongly a Christian book. 

Throughout the book, Fields liberates her readers from 8 commonly held beliefs (as a Christian myself, I was surprised at how many of these applied to me and other moms I know), imparting an "understanding that lifts the weight of guilt and fear and frees you to love your children as God intended" through exploring God's own life as parent and stories from real-life families.

It is difficult to really explain to you what this book is - it surprised me in ways that I hadn't expected just from the title and taglines and applied directly to me in ways that I hadn't foreseen.  I found it both releasing and encouraging and offer it to you as recommended reading. 

The Self-Esteem Trap

I just finished reading The Self-Esteem Trap:Raising Confident and Compassionate Kids in an Age of Self-Importance, by Polly Young-Eisendrath, PhD.

First, I want to say that I am extremely conservative in recommending parenting books to anyone.  This is true for various reasons which I won't get into here, but suffice to say there are probably only two books out there of which I would confidently say "you should read this, you need to read this" to parents. 

However, I am going to include and recommend this one to you.  I really enjoyed reading it and I felt like the author's observations were relevant, fascinating, insightful, helpful, and at least necessary for consideration particularly by our generation. I've been following this thread of thought through various authors (which somewhat revolves around an observation of a shift in parenting styles in America circa the 60's).  I was thrilled to find the same discussion by this author who is very different from the other authors I've read - she is a practicing Buddhist and a Jungian Psycotherapist and the influence of these is definitely felt throughout the book, which was all the more interesting but not a turn off to me as a Christian.  As with any book, I didn't agree with everything that was said - and the topic is detailed enough that I can't present a comprehensive summary or discussion here.  But I would like to say that it is worth adding to your "to read" list.

I'm so anxious to have a discussion with other parents about this, but I don't know anyone else who has read it yet.  So much so, that I even considered recommending it to my book club.

2009 parenting book list

I honestly don't read many parenting books.  However, now that we are about to start again with a new baby, I've been eyeing the parenting section a little more.  Occasionally something peaks my interest whether it's personal or whether it's just because I'm interested in kids and parenting in general.  Here are a few books that I'm hoping to read in the new year.  If you've read any of them, let me know what you thought.

New Parent Power by John Rosemond (admittedly, I've browsed this book pretty heavily in the past - but I own Parenting By the Book and he is one of the few authors I really like in the parenting category)

I'm Not Your Friend, I'm Your Parent by 

E.D.Hill(admittedly, I've browsed this one a bit already too and don't expect much new from it, but some confirmation/encouragement for some of the parenting styles I've already adopted)

The Self-Esteem Trap:Raising Confident and Compassionate Kids in an Age of Self-Importance 

by Polly Young-Eisendrath (a philosophy I've already read about from other authors, including John Rosemond. But I'm interested to ponder this more and see what someone else has to say)

The Diseasing of America's Children; Exposing the ADHD Fiasco and Empowering Parents to Take Back Control (John Rosemond again, interested in what the author has to say )

expect the unexpected

We're back from Christmas vacation and therefore I'm back from my temporary blog hiatus.  However, we are having too much fun drawing vacation out at home as the girls don't return to their school schedules until next week.  So, while I plan to blog more soon..(very soon, I have a growing list of post ideas), for the moment I'm just going to leave this one pregnancy thought that I've been pondering:

  

There is one certainty about having a baby (whether the first or third) - the only guarantee I'll ever offer another parent and it's this;  

No matter what experience you've garnered, how much you've read or how much you've observed other children, etc - there is only ONE thing you can be absolutely sure of and that is that something will be utterly different than what you expect.  Seems like a "duh" doesn't it?  But really, as I begin to ponder scheduling and sleeping and feeding plans and discipline and other ideas about how this house will run with the addition of our new daughter (yeah, I'm a planner), the one thing I know to remind myself repeatedly  is that somehow it just won't go according to plan. And strangely that makes things both less stressful and more exciting at the same time.  

(note: I've never read the book pictured here, but thought it was fitting. You can find it here.)

A Bad Case of Stripes

The girls and I enjoyed some reading today as with every day.  We were recently given a new book called "A Bad Case of Stripes" by David Shannon.  I enjoyed reading this silly story about a girl named Camille Cream who is worried about what everyone else thinks and finally learns to accept herself as she is.  The pictures were colorful and the story was delightful with a great lesson, so I thought I'd recommend it.

little kid chapter books

Hope's reading has improved and she is ready for chapter books.  So, I took her to B&N with me to find a new one.  There were only 3 series available that I could find in the 1-3 grade level.  I steered her away from the Fun Day Fairies as she is already saturated with enough of everything fairy, princess, pink or sparkly.  Junie B. Jones and also the Magic Tree House series were left.  I let her choose, and she picked "Dinosaurs Before Dark," the first in the Magic Tree House collection by Mary Pope Osborne.  I haven't read any of these yet, but they looked pretty good.  Does anyone else know of any good chapter book series in this age group?

Improvisational Cook

A friend who shares a passion for food and cooking recently gave me a great cook book called "The Improvisational Cook"  by Sally Sneider.  It was automatically one of my favorite cookbooks!  I don't generally use recipes.  I much prefer the experimental method.  Cooking is a lot about the creative process for me - I'm more interested in understanding the science and technique of cooking and how flavors complement each other.  So this book was right up my alley.  Each recipe is followed by a section which helps you to understand the internal logic of the recipe and creative possibilities.  This is followed by a section of notated improvisations on that recipe to start as a jumping point.  It's a really cool book and I'm looking forward to becoming a better cook with whatever is on hand. 

Eat This, Not That!

I recently saw the book "Eat This, Not That! for Kids!" sitting around at a friend's house.  So I browsed through it and thought it was a really great tool.  With all of the dangerous effects being overweight has on our health, making wise decisions to cut back on bad fats and sugar is necessary.  This book was a fun little guide which addressed just that.  It has several really helpful sections including one for a decent sized list of restaurants:
Do you know which has less calories and fat at Chick Fil'A - 8 piece chicken nuggets with BBQ sauce or chicken ceasar cool wrap?
 If you chose the cool wrap you'd be eating 175 more calories and 3 extra grams of fat.
There is another great section for traversing the grocery store where it takes you down the aisles to help you make great swaps for various brands of your favorite foods and snacks.  There is so much more in this little book too including the Ultimate Menu Decoder, In the Cafeteria, and At Home - it's fun and colorful and really helpful!
And since the whole family should get involved in making smart choices, check out the regular version for adults too!

the great big veg challenge

Still trying to entice your kids to eat their veggies?  Still trying to get up the courage to eat them yourself and set a good example?  Here is an idea that I love!  Charlotte Hume has written The Great Big Veg Challenge - a book which provides simple, fun, and non-intimidating recipes for vegetables from A to Z.  Each letter features a couple of vegetables and several recipes which are appealing to kids and adults alike. Challenge your family to the goal of eating their way through the alphabet by trying a new vegetable each week.  Try attempting at least two recipes per veggie before ruling it out as a continued addition to your diet.  Make it fun and have the kids help prepare the dishes and then rate them.  Keep a list of all the veggies you try on your fridge and watch as the world of veggies expands beyond carrots and corn.  This book may offer a way to take the stress out of exploring and eating vegetables in your house and make it a fun and anticipated part of mealtime.  (You can follow Charlotte and see how she implemented this challenge with her 7 yr. old son at her own great blog.)

Cooking with Mollie Katzen

I finally got my hands on a book that I'd been anxious to have: The Vegetable Dishes I Can't Live Without by Mollie Katzen.  I can't wait to add some simple new flair to the veggies at our table. But, as I researched a bit more about Katzen (who is famous for her The Moosewood Cookbook), I happily discovered that she has written three cookbooks for kids.  Salad People (preschool and up), Pretend Soup (preschool and up), and Honest Pretzels (8 and up).  Each book is unpretentious, based on good food and real techniques.  I'm anxious to get my hands on Pretend Soup for which each recipe has two layouts:  the first detailing ingredients, safety tips, and a familiar version of the recipe (for the adult) and the second is pictoral with a few easy words (for the child).  The books are vegetarian and so if you are looking for a fun way to get your kids involved in cooking, appreciating good healthy foods, eating more veggies, and having fun - these might be a good place to start!

Animalia

I can't say enough good things about a favorite book find - Animalia by Graeme Base.  It took Base more than three years to complete the GORGEOUS illustrations for this sophisticated and whimsical alphabet book.  Each page is an alliterated sentence based upon the letter for that page...and I've LOVED reading this aloud to my girls because it is just so fun to say and the vocabulary is brilliant, try: Unruly Unicorns Upending Urns of Ultramarine Umbrellas or Zany Zebras Zigzagging in Zinc Zepplins.  The phrases themselves are not only delightful to the ear but visually beautiful and artistic, each craftily presented in it's own "font" or style - fitting for a book of simply STUNNING illustration - colorful, full of detail, amusing... I could spend hours just looking at every page finding all of many little pictures and minutiae (all beginning with the letter for that page) hidden within the greater illustration. As an added hide-and-seek, Graeme Base as a boy is hiding in every illustration. Each page explodes the imagination and draws you into a beautiful world of fantastic settings.
There is actually a website dedicated to listing every item which can be found on each page here.  There is even a television series based on the book - here is the official website for that. And my favorite find concerning this treasure of a book, is that Base released a coloring book version for kids to color the illustrations themselves - hey, I would love to color in this book myself!

art for the young and young at heart

I found this book at the library and was instantly attracted to it.  I brought it home and Matt said, "We should buy that book."  The book is Tell Me a Picture.  It's by Quentin Blake, whom you will recognize as an illustrator if you are familiar with Roald Dahl books.  The premise is simple: Blake has chosen an array of paintings which he introduces in an alphabetized manner by the name of the painter (one piece of art per letter of the alphabet).  Turn the page after viewing the painting and you'll find Blake's own characteristically simple cartoon-like sketches who conversationally pose a couple simple observations or questions about the art.  The idea is to encourage youngsters to enjoy the art by looking for the stories each piece tells....to observe and wonder.  I love the idea of this and that it is not a passive book, but one that promotes conversation, intrigue, and appreciation.  The variety of paintings is outstanding and the book would be great for a range of ages to enjoy over and over again.  It's not just for children, I'd leave this one on my coffee table. (National Gallery, Tell Me a Picture Exhibit)

Mother Talk

I found this handy little site called Mother Talk.  Basically they host reviews for lots of books and other items like music, movies, etc....   It is difficult to know which books are actually worth reading, so this might be really helpful if you've heard of something and want to hear more.  Or, in the case of just wanting to find a great new album for your tot or book for you, this might help get the ball rolling towards making a good decision.  Have fun!

Book Wish Foundation

I received a message from Logan Kleinwaks about his Reston-based non-profit organization and thought it was such a worthy cause that I definitely wanted to share it with you all.  The Book Wish Foundation provides books, reading glasses, libraries, and school supplies for Darfur refugees.  We so often take our education and access to all kinds of resources, such as books, for granted - you can hardly imagine the difference that these materials are making in the lives of children and people elsewhere. It isn't just about the books....but the hope of a better future.  Hope is a powerful thing and the most amazing gift.   It would be great if you would just take a minute to read more about this organization, and more importantly about the people who are benefiting from it.  You can check out the recent article in the Reston Connection here, or visit the Book Wish Foundation website. 
(this picture taken from the BWF website shows children hungrily learning in 113 degree heat - now that's dedication!)

It's Just a Plant

I got the scoop on this book over at Mom Logic.  The self-published work by Ricardo Cortes titled "It's Just a Plant" "is an illustrated children's book about marijuana. It follows the journey of a young girl as she learns about the plant from a diverse cast of characters including her parents, a local farmer, a doctor, and a police officer."
Here is a quote taken from near the beginning:
"One night, Jackie woke up past her bedtime.  She smelled something funny in the air, so she walked down the hall to her parents' bedroom. "What's that, Mommy?" asked Jackie.  "Are you and Daddy smoking a cigarette?"  "No, baby," said her mother.  "This is a joint. It's made of marijuana."
I haven't had a chance to read the whole thing yet, but I believe it does go on to say that marijuana is illegal. I definitely think that parents need to be talking with their children about drugs and drug use, but I'm not sure that the picture-book method (at least not with this book) is the route I would take. 
What do you think?

My Beautiful Mommy

Got the scoop on this one from my friend Kirsten - a children's book aimed to help children understand and resolve fears about their mom's plastic surgery!  While I applaud the intent of the plastic-surgeon-father-of-six-author to communicate clearly with children, console fears, and explain why mommy "looks different" (some plastic surgeries are necessary and/or beneficial of course), I have to shake my head again at a society that measures worth by beauty and measures beauty by false and unrealistic standards.  What about a book that teaches that my mommy is beautiful because her nose is unique and her hips are curvy and she bears the loose skin and stretch marks of delivering a few kids?  I suppose the issue isn't really the book...but becoming mothers who understand true beauty and worth, exhibit self-confidence regardless of physical attributes, and teach future generations to do the same. 

Horton Hears A Who

Today was dreary and chilly and so we decided to take advantage of the yet unused movie tickets that had been given as a Christmas gift to all of us.  We took the girls on our first full-family visit to see a movie and watched Horton Hears A Who.  It turned out to be a rather relaxing way to spend the afternoon.  Popcorn is always a hit with our girls who sat on our laps, and despite already having had a morning nap, Maddie fell asleep during the movie.  Hope enjoyed the movie and I'll agree that it was pretty good. I'm always a little skeptical to allow my girls to watch something I haven't already seen, but this turned out well and was a really nice way for the family to just chill out and enjoy a drizzly afternoon together.  If you aren't familiar with the Dr. Seuss book, it's a good one - one I've enjoyed reading to my young girls as the theme-line is "a person's a person no matter how small." 

Where Fish Go in Winter....

We discovered this book which is simply great for curious little minds - Where Fish Go in Winter and Other Great Mysteries by Amy Goldman Koss.  The book is a Puffin level 3 easy-to-read and does a straightforward job of answering questions such as why does popcorn pop?  What do clouds feel like? Why do leaves change color? Do spiders stick to their own webs? What is the sound inside a seashell? and more.  Each question is answered in rhyming poetry and accompanied by brilliantly colored illustrations. For young children who are in the "why? why? why?" phase, this is a fun and captivating choice - and it's sure to develop a greater interest in noticing and understanding the world around them for any child. 

WIN this book!

For five years I lived next door to a woman who was not just a friend but someone who profoundly affected my faith and the mother I am today.  I am sure she has not known this - but simply observing her and her family was so meaningful and helpful to me that I still think of them often.  Recently, realizing that her eldest daughter must now be graduating from college, I was curious to touch bases with them again.  I was excited but not surprised to find that Janell has published this book. I am so thrilled to be able to GIVE AWAY a FREE copy (you know you want it :) and to highly recommend it as a must read.  Just leave me a comment on this post between now and April 1 and I will randomly draw a winner and send a free book. 

Don't Sweat the Small Stuff

It is so easy to fill your life with drama, stress, and frustration - and having kids running around can only seem to compound our feelings of uncentered frenzy.  In general, I'm not a big connaisseur of self-help type books - but I flipped through this one on several different occasions and decided I had to have it.  Don't Sweat The Small Stuff; and it's all small stuff by Richard Carlson was on the NY Times bestseller list for 100 weeks - and you'll see why as soon as you peep inside.  It is a small, unassuming book filled with 100 bite-sized chapters that show you how to "stop blowing things out of proportion, stop worrying about things that might happen, stop obsessing about things you can't change or that don't matter - and start living!"  It's full of simple, gentle, stress-reducing suggestions. And I've really grown very fond of it. I definitely recommend it to everyone.

Kirsten on Natural birth, part 2

So You Want to Be a Natural Woman…

Like any birth choices, deciding whether or not to labor naturally is a very personal decision.  Arm yourself with information, and then go with what makes you feel comfortable.  If you do plan to labor naturally, more power to you!  Here are a few suggestions to help you out: 

Prepare.  Research and practice natural methods of pain management such as positioning, counter-pressure, water labor/birth, and massage.  Mentally, you will also need an extra dose of preparation to help carry you through.  My husband and I took Bradley classes, which encourage a natural, husband-coached childbirth.  We also have memorized Hebrews 12:2 as a theme verse for labor.  It talks about fixing your eyes on Jesus, who endured the suffering of the cross for the joy set before him. I hope in labor to remember this verse, being reminded also of the joy set before me:  meeting that baby! 

Find a Supportive Environment.  At your home, this is easier, because it’s your environment and you set the tone.  If you’re laboring naturally in a hospital, make sure you communicate your desires to the staff.  Every few minutes you don’t want someone poking their head in asking, “You sure you don’t want that epidural?”  Do whatever it takes to make your laboring space comfortable and stress-free. Play music, dim the lights—whatever takes you to your happy place. 

Find a Supportive Birth Team.  This starts with your husband or partner and the midwife or doctor you choose.  If you plan to have other friends or family members present, again make sure that everyone is aware of your desire to labor naturally.  Most importantly consider hiring a Professional Labor Assistant (also called a doula), whose job it is to assist women in labor. Studies show that mothers who use a doula had shorter labors, needed fewer medical interventions, and had a lower cesarean rate.  To locate a doula, check www.dona.org, the website for the Doulas of North America. 

Maggie Tales

Maggie Tales instant storytime offers a great solution to waiting in lines, riding on planes or in automobiles, awaiting food at restaurants or any time your fidgety child needs something to grab their attention. The digital children's books, available on your computer, can also be downloaded to your iPhone, iPod, Sony PSP, Smartphones and more.  The Storytime library is updated weekly with new content for ages 2-8. 

Giddy-up for a good children's book

I was in Barnes & Noble today, where I met a very nice woman and also got to check out a really great book. Gallop!: A Scanimation Picture Book by Rufus Seder had both of my girls and the other woman's little boy captivated.  And I must say, I thought it was really cool. Each page has a picture of an animal which moves by that great scan-art technique - and I mean, really moves - lots of movement, it's great! Definitely something new and fascinating to add to any kids library.  I would even say that babies too will really enjoy seeing the black and white figures run, crawl, and do whatever they do.  If you are headed to B&N soon, be sure to check it out, it's something you need to see in person.

Pottery Barn Book - get it today!

Pottery Barn Kids is having a 3-day sale with up to 65% off.  Here's a great find from the sale:
Pottery Barn Kids: Kids Rooms.  Get the book for $9.99 and be inspired to create great spaces for your kids, learn imaginative ways to organize everything, and revel in the stylishness of it all! 

Deceptively Delicious scores pretty well

I posted a while ago about the book Deceptively Delicious by Jessica Seinfeld - no doubt many of you are familiar, but for those who are still wondering whether the recipes are feasible and tasty...here's my take.
I've finally tried out a handful of them, and most of them went over well.  The pureeing really doesn't have to be time consuming at all, which is a good thing.  My girls loved the pink pancakes (which are really super pink! so no surprise that they liked 'em), the tacos, the tortilla cigars and the Peanut Butter and Banana Muffins (which are rich but come out with a really tasty crunchy top exterior). I haven't tried any of the desserts yet, but my friend Kate tells me that donuts were a hit in her household.  My kids aren't picky eaters and love veggies, so I just let them help me make it and they don't seem to think it is strange. Mostly, I've loved that the book has gotten my creative juices flowing so that I can create my own recipes that pack a more nutritious punch.  I'd love to take a look at The Sneaky Chef (the book from which J.Seinfeld was accused of plagiarism) for more ideas.  And I hear that the author, Missy Chase Lapine, will soon have another book published for The Sneaky Chef: How to Cheat on Your Man (In The Kitchen!): Hiding Healthy Foods in Hearty Meals Any Guy Will Love.

This ABC book rocks!

I just have to say that I LOVE this book-The Alphabet Room by Sara Pinto.  It might seem unusual at first, but I'm intrigued by just how ingenious the design is.  It's your basic ABC book - a big bright letter per page, plus one word that begins with that letter - on the opposite page is a picture of that word on a "door" flap - open the door to view a room that contains that object.  Each new view into the room contains all the objects previously listed - but rearranged each time in really interesting ways, extremely creative conversation fodder! If you are an artist or a "conceptual" kind of person, you'll just adore it!  Kids will never get tired of opening the doors to spy inside and talk about what the characters are doing and how they are rearranged, or simply searching to locate each of the objects afore-named. A truly inspiring and unique look at the alphabet!

Looky Book

There's been lots of talk about this site, and I can see why - it's great! Looky book allows you to view picture books from cover to back!  You can enjoy the books on site, read some reviews, and decide whether you want to purchase it for your own home library.  And it's free! So long as you have your laptop and internet access, you can take a library of books for the kids with you wherever you go.  There is nothing quite like the feel of a good book in your hands, but this is an awesome resource!

What to expect guide to a healthy home

From the best selling author of "What to Expect When You're Expecting" comes a new guide: "What to Expect Guide to a Healthy Home."  You can go here to order a free copy while supplies last, or you can download it for free as well. 

Does birth order matter?

Do a search on "birth order" and you'll find endless hits, or just read The New Birth Order Book by Kevin Leman for example - but what's the big deal? Does your position within your family really matter that much? As an only child, I never really gave much thought to it - until my second child was born. She is totally different from her older sister - I'd easily say I could see personality differences almost instantly from birth, but I have to admit - there are some things in both of my girls that already seem to line up with the generalized characteristics attributed to birth order. More and more interest is being generated towards this field of study, but it is a very difficult area due to so many factors. Interestingly, back in June a group of Norwegian scientists released a study which showed that first children tend to have higher IQ's than any siblings born after them. But what does this mean to me? Can so much of our choices and tendencies really be attributed to birth order? Can knowing these trends help me to help my children be the best they can be? Or is it all just something interesting to ponder, but nothing that carries any stock? What do you think? (interesting articles on birth order: CNN.com, TIME magazine, Adlerian overview of characteristics)

Kid friendly magazines

My mom ordered Highlights High Five magazine for Hope and she just got her first issue this month.  I had fond memories of Highlights magazine from my own childhood and was pleased to see this version for ages 2-6.  Hope loves it too and has looked through it and had me read it all to her several times.  Plus, what kid doesn't like to get mail? I also discovered this magazine recently: National Geographic Little Kids designed for ages 3-6.  I love National Geographic Magazine and have been very excited about National Geographic Kids...but now with a preschool version there's no need to wait! But hold on, I also like Playroom Magazine, and I love Zootles magazine (the preschool version of the great Zoobooks magazines) and Your Big Backyard (the preschool version of the also great Ranger Rick magazines). And then there is Kids Discover Magazine for ages 6 and up and Creative Kids Magazine for 8 and up. With all of these great options, it is so difficult to choose! We read so much around here, I'd love to have them all.  A great magazine is just one more way to get kids excited and interesting in reading and learning.     

Great Christmas books!

I love holiday books - and especially with the cold weather outside, it is nice to curl up with the kids for some great reading.  Here are a just a very few of my favorites - they'd sure make special gifts too!
B is for Bethlehem, Isabel Wilner: Rhyming verses introduce the letters of the alphabet and the events surrounding the birth of Jesus.  The illustrations are spectacular!!! mixed-media collage using watercolor, cut paper and the artist's own drawings.
The Christmas Miracle of Jonathan Toomey, Susan Wojciechowski: a touching story with some of the most beautiful and extraordinary illustrations!
The Legend of the Candy Cane, Lori Walburg: sweet and meaningful story again with absolutely lovely illustrations!
Mary Engelbreit, The Night Before Christmas: the original poem ensconced in brilliant, colorful, whimsical illustrations.
I SPY Christmas, Wick and Marzollo: search for various treasures hidden in seasonal collage pictures - makes for challenging fun for anyone and special together time for parents and kids.
The Best Christmas Pageant Ever, Barbara Robinson: if you haven't read it, you must! A classic! A short chapter book to be shared over and over!
I'm always looking for a great book, what are your Christmas faves?

The Vaccine Book

I hear this is a good resource and a pretty un-biased book.  I can't give you my personal opinion since I haven't read it yet, but since it is a pretty hot pick among moms right now, I figured I'd put it out there: The Vaccine Book by Dr. Sears

May I pet your dog?

While we haven't yet added a furry friend to our home, our girls are still big fans of dogs.  My husband and I both grew up with a family pup, there was not a time as a child that I can remember being unfamiliar with a canine pal.  In either case, even children who are growing up with a pooch as well as those who are not should be taught how to handle dogs that they might meet anywhere - on a walk, in the park, other people's homes, etc.....  In order to better ensure your child's safety, your child should be well equipped with knowledge of when to leave dogs alone and how to safely approach a dog only after they have asked the owner if it is okay.  Over-exuberance or fear can easily be turned into a calm confidence that will allow your children to have wonderful and safe encounters with our furry friends.  A quick search will reveal all the tips you need to know, but May I Pet Your Dog? by Stephanie Calmenson, told from the first-person perspective of a friendly Dachsund, is a great book - a fun and wonderful resource for teaching your child. 

Funny is as funny reads

Kids naturally have a great sense of humor.  Hope loves to combine funny syllables and words and then laugh at her "joke."  The sounds of language are fun to play with...and of course, with a maturing sense of humor, so are the meanings.  I like to try to pick a few books during our library selection that offer a bit of preschool-sized humor.  Here are a few recent picks that my girls have really enjoyed, I know your kids will love them too!
Cock-a-Doodle-Moo; a Mixed Up Menagerie by Keith DuQuette (oh this book is fabulous! and spurs creativity too!)

A Pocketful of Nonsense by James Marshall
(A peanut sat on a railroad track. His heart was all a-flutter. The five-fifteen came rushing by - toot! toot! Peanut butter!)

Oh Say Can You Say? by Dr. Seuss (wonderful nonsensical tongue twisters!)

home library habits

I've developed two library habits sort of unintentionally but it has turned out to be a great thing for us.  We visit the local library every couple weeks or so...at which time the girls and I check out about forty books from the children's section. Well, it is so much that I can't carry it and the stroller gets relegated to a book cart.  And, I do get funny looks from some parents who apparently think it is improper to check out more than a book or two per child.  Still, I've been given an unlimited check-out and we really do read ALL the books so many times until I can't stand it and can't wait to get back to the library within about two weeks - our turn over is quick.  It's like a great big treasure when we get home and spread out all the books and start to read.   We choose a wide variety of books to suit both Maddie and Hope and I also particularly choose a whole handful of books on a topic. For instance, we recently had about 6 books - story-based, factual, and crafty - about pumpkins, and we currently have a good collection of Thanksgiving themed books.  I take this collection and display them standing on a children's table we have in the play room.  It's a great way to bring a bit of the bookstore or library into our own space.  It inspires great topical conversations between my girls and I, seasonal projects, and more.  The covers add a great little boost of color and decor to the room and inspire my girls to think of books as a great option for their time along with their toys.

Before Five in a Row

  I've just received a package that I couldn't be more excited about! It is a program for learning that I am enthralled with so much so that with all the endless resources and learning tools and books out there, I am recommending you check out this one! It is so very unique, easy, brilliant, helpful, and appealing.  I would love to tell you all about FIve in a Row in this post, but I think it is best captured and explained by the website.  What I ordered was Before Five in a Row, tailored for preschool aged children.  While it is also used by homeschooling parents, this would make an awesome summer resource for kids enrolled in school throughout the year.  With over 50,000 testimonies to the simple but extremely effective nature of this resource, you'll want to check it out.  "Five in a Row produces extraordinary results for ordinary moms in the real world."  You and your children will never look at books and reading the same way again.

simple secrets to getting your kids to eat good food

Jessica Seinfeld (yes, Jerry's wife)  has recently appeared on the Today Show and Oprah to discuss her new book "Deceptively Delicious".  The book is filled with kid-tested, nutritionist-approved, easy recipes that include a hidden secret ingredient (veggie purees) as a means to deliver those extra important nutrients to children who might not be so apt to eat their veggies.   While Jessica suggest that you still serve a side of veggies with every meal to teach your children that they are important, she has developed an index of recipes, even luscious desserts, that pack the power of veggies into scrumptious taste.  I was curious to thumb through the book during a recent visit to Barnes and Noble, but apparently all of the first press editions immediately sold out and bookstores everywhere are currently awaiting a second printing.  I'm curious to give some of the recipes my own taste test.

Amazing Alphabet Books - not just for toddlers!

I LOVE these alphabet books by Jerry Palotta.  Each one presents great factual information that would be interesting to a wide range of ages (my Hope especially loves the Butterfly Alphabet book).  Palotta has teamed up with Ralph Masiello who brings amazing and gorgeous brightly colored illustrations to make these books a truly spectacular find.  There is sure to be one that will fascinate your child - including alphabet book subjects Frogs, Ocean, Underwater, Icky Bugs, Butterflies, Airplanes, Furry Animals, Dinosaurs, Boats, Dessert, Flowers, Icky Reptiles and more! These would be a great resource for introducing sciences like biology to kids.  I might have to start a wish list just so I can add this collection of books to it. 

 

move the playdate into the kitchen

Thought this looked like a great book - Kitchen Playdates: Easy Ideas for Entertaining that Include the Kids by Lauren Deen. It first caught my husband's eye on the Today Show this morning, so I listened in to the segment for a bit and really liked some of what I heard. The concept is really great. You can check it out for yourself [here].